First time here? Read this!

Thank you for visiting my site. In case you don’t already know, I’m an erotic romance/erotica writer. This is my blog of thoughts and stories, so it’s likely you’ll find adult content either posted or linked around the place.

So, now we’re on the same page, I trust we’re all adults here — which generally means 18+, or older if that’s what it takes.

What now?


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5 thoughts on “First time here? Read this!

  1. Hey I am intrigued, on your 13 questions blog post you mentioned that your could undo the unhealthy approach you took on your writing when you were young. So as a young writer I try to learn from other people’s mistakes. So I was wondering what healthy approach was it but if it’s too personal, it’s okay not to answer. I am a curious being lol 😊


    1. Happy to share, Samantha. 🙂 Writing was an escape for me, but what I didn’t realise at the time was that I was struggling with anxiety and depression. Instead of looking after myself, I would withdraw into writing. I’d write so much, then burn out, which would make me even more depressed. It’s a vicious cycle. I wouldn’t call it an addiction, but there was enough neuroses involved that I had to quit writing fiction altogether to pull myself out of it. That was about 16 years ago. I picked it up again in the last couple of years and have been more careful

      It’s OK to escape into fictional worlds, as long as you remember to eat healthy (and often), get enough sleep, exercise a few times a week, and make time to have fun without feeling guilty. Creativity is like breathing. I thought I could exhale forever and it was killing me. Now I realise if I make time to inhale, my creative projects flow more easily. 🙂 Best of luck with your writing, Samantha. I enjoy following your stories and blog!!

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      1. Thanks for sharing this. I am glad you are able to pick yourself up and start doing what you love in a healthier way 😊 I will always have this in my mind


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